POLAR OPPOSITES married 30+ years
In honour of Valentine’s Day I thought I’d share a little bit about my very long marriage to my husband and how different we are.
HIM ME
organized where does this go?
thoughtful distracted
kind distracted
caring what?
romantic such crap!
good memory ??????
patient impatient
tolerant impatient
long fuse/slow to anger pissed off just thinking about it!
There are a couple of things we have in common though, and they are the important ones;
We both believe in helping those we love, without judgement.
We both believe that the happier the other is, so shall we be happier.
We both are constantly amused by me.
We both think I am funny.
Love him to pieces.
He’s a real sweetie.
He’s good to me.
I’m good to him, in my own way. A more loyal believer he will never find.
BTW…I may have convinced him that he would find his trip across the country when we move with ME IN THE VEHICLE…singing along to all my tunes, talking and chatting, keeping him amused, laughing and awake, making sure his trip is fun, not just drive, drive drive drive all the live long day!
He mentioned that I might be right GIANT SMILES HERE!!!
On Valentine's Day
Valentine’s Day Kokeshi Paper Doll to Color
Ug. Yuk. Can't stand this "entirely made for retail businesses to make even more money than they already do on crap nobody really needs or wants" holiday !!!!
Long winded, yes, I know. But this holiday bugs the shit out of me. And finally, after 20 odd years during our 30+ year marriage, hubby got it. HE loved the candlelight dinner, flowers, chocolate, sex after day/night and tried everything to get me on board.
Year after year, he tried some over the top foolish supposedly romantic thing, then, he switched to the simple, classy, not overly done romantic gesture theme. Waste of his time and money, believe me.
Finally, he believed me. And finally, he stopped…for the most part at least.
I still get the romantic card declaring his eternal and everlasting love with a small in his eyes gift that he knows I like, this year it is my all time favourite iTunes gift card.
But still, I would prefer he forget about this silly holiday entirely. 'Cause I always feel obligated after all this persistence on his part to at least go and buy him a card too. Except the cards that catch my eye are always…funny. Irreverent. Jokes. Well, you get the drift.
He actually told me last evening that on the radio he heard the results of a survey that was done asking "real women" what they really, really wanted for Valentine's Day. The answer was a romantic, candlelit dinner.
Hubby wondered out loud if I was a 'real woman'. Said he'd have to check it out again just to make sure:)
such a pig.
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I followed some links to discover this decor blog which is irreverent and funny. Click below and read a bit…plus I agree with her observations on a lot of shit:)


Beautiful Face
Great cleavage…damn! LOL