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Conflict Resolution Mistakes To Avoid
How many of these are you guilty of?
- Avoiding conflict altogether
- Being Defensive
- Being Right
- Forgetting to Listen
- Playing the Blame Game
- Trying to “WIN” the Argument
- Making Character Attacks
If you are interested in knowing my answers, well, I’m sorry to say that I am GUILTY of ALL of them, every single one!
Especially number 4, because in my mind I am ALWAYS RIGHT and if by chance I am wrong it’s because I misunderstood the question LMAO
No, seriously, becoming a “know it all” is quite common for an ADDer/ADHDer because we see the “big picture” easily, it’s the details we miss. Something I learned from the book “ADD Stole My Car Keys” by Rick Green and Dr. Umesh Jain.
While I was laughing of course:)
Which is how they get me.
Disarm me with humour so I will actually hear what they are saying.
I’m starting to get seriously annoyed at them.